From, Bette: The Life of Bette Davis. “Her father rejected her. Her first husband involved her in a blackmail scheme. Her second died tragically. Her fourth faught her in a bitter custody battle. Her love affairs with Howard Hughes, William Wyler, threatened her reputation. Her mother, sister, and children made demands that threatened her health, her finances and her sanity. Yet, through it all… Bette Davis endured.”
Bette Davis, the outspoken silver screen queen, was known for her unconventional style, her braisenness, and feminist views before there was even a name for it. After receiving thousands of fan letters monthly asking for her advice on personal matters, Bette decided to respond.
This book is a compilation and reprint of answers to such delicate questions from fans such as, “What should I do? I’m in love with two brothers,” or, “I met a man who says he is a talent scout and wants me to come to Hollywood with him. Should I go?,” or, “Is it wrong to be in love with a married man?”
These intimate letters seek advice on child abuse, interracial dating and marriage, body image, entertainment goals, loss of a loved one, wartime woes, and the reporting of a murder.
Shocking, poignant and straight-forward, Bette Davis hands out advice that may surprise you. A “must” for old-Hollywood fans and Turner Classic Movie fans.
(Questions/Responses from letters received, circa 1938-1949)
I love old movies and television shows. Something about the acting, especially in the 40’s and 50’s, was so fresh and timeless, one can’t help but be in awe. Despite all of the entertainment I’ve watched during that era I haven’t wanted many with Bette Davis. I was more of a Rosalind Russel fan myself, preferring comedies to other genres, but I appreciate Bette Davis, and her obvious devotion to her craft.
I didn’t realize until I picked up Dear Bette that she hand wrote responses to her many adoring fans, which is what makes up one of the most unique books I think I’ve ever read. I first must state that her dedication to her admirers is obvious, and the fact that we are able to read her actual words and advice is remarkable! It is apparent she cares about these writers, as her responses are not merely brush-offs, but well thought out, some with sass, and others with heart, but all coming from the voice of a legend.
One thing that struck me as I read each letter and response is the fact that the questions, and advice, hasn’t changed much over the decades. I guess some problems are just timeless, something I took unique solace in.
My thanks to Patrice Williams Marks for taking the time to compile this fun read, transporting me to a “simpler” time, and a brief glimpse into a Hollywood legends mind, helping me to know her better, and respect her even more.
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